Saturday, May 30, 2009

Being Hurt:

Welcome to the Party Pals!

Sometimes in life we come across women that have hurt us, yet there are thousands, maybe millions, of our friends that look down on us because we do things differently than they do----we listen. There is no place for heart-broken men in this world, so we are ridiculed and shunned because of our nature. We refuse to change into our alter aggressive male counterparts. We are meek, but not weak (not the same thing so know the difference...read a book). We are the ones that do the things females want us to do, and do not want credit for it. We love with one hand and protect w/ the other. We try I hardest to not fall for certain traps and devices set-up by females who would do us wrong. Sometimes we just need some understanding instead of judgment. Our actions get misconstrued and taken for granted.

Right now as I have labeled these things, I want you to think about some female that has did these things to you. Someone that has wronged you and picture them in your mind. Hurts does it not? The reason why I ask you to do this is for this very reason alone...forgive, move-on, live your life to the fullest. Sometimes we tend to reminisce about our past hurts a little too much. It's okay to remember, but if you have never forgave, then you should try to do that first. Forgiveness allows those ignorant females to feel extremely crappy about how they treated you. Also while we are on the subject of forgiveness, lets try to wish them good luck/Blessings upon them. This is hard, because I know many of you want to see her get hurt, drained, left alone, and put through the same trouble she placed you in. You're not going to ever forget her, and you're probably not going to stop picturing her in hurtful situations....this is why there is a process of grieving and release. Accept the fact that you will probably meet a lot more evil, vendictive women before you are Blessed/fortunate to meet your queen. It's a hard path that we must walk, but don't stray, because in the end you will get rewarded.

I've made this blog because I want true feed-back. I kept it simple and made it ossible for us to get feedback from all of our experience, and even the females that might have done this in their lifetime. Right now I want to apologize to certain women in my life that have done me wrong, and I never forgave them. To Quita, Keia, and Jas (they know who they are)...I'm sorry that I've hated you all and wish harm upon you because of what you've done to me. I wish you all the best that life/God has in store for you. I hope that you succeed in everything you do, and I personally hope you find that person that understands you. I also hope that somewhere down the line we can be cool/friends/buddies/compadres/etc.No hard feelings at all...honest :-) .

Now that I've wasted roughly around 5-15 minutes of your time reading this lol, I want you men and women to get in on this and give me some honest and profane-free feedback. I realize I will see some real strong comments, but I expect honest and ADULT feedback.

Your Time is NOW!!